Maisie Storm Angelique was born August 2, 1997 in at
Scripps Hospital in Encinitas California to the Donovan family, proud
parents Alfredo and Melinda Donovan and brother Sebastian.
We knew that we had been blessed with such a miracle
and that we were so fortunate to live in an area with a highly respected
school district for her to grow and thrive in, it was worth the additional
property costs. We looked forward to a remarkable future, we were set,
and we were lucky!
We put Maisie in the San Diego State University Child Development Study
at 5 months of age, proud to support our community. Maisie was examined
from the age of five months to almost three years of age and videotaped
in a clinical setting.
Melinda, Alfredo, and Sebastian participated with Maisie in our local
community activities, like the "Mommy and Me" exercise program
in Calavera Hills Community Center and "Gymboree". We read to
Maisie, played Mozart CD's, used flash cards, and played language tapes
and spoke in different languages to her to increase her potential to be
multilingual like her father.
When Maisie turned two, we enrolled her in the Miracosta Child Development
Center while Melinda attended classes in Miracosta Community College.
Very shortly after this was when we began to have a very different perspective
about Maisie.
As her first semester in the Miracosta Children's Center ended, other
children were beginning to speak quite clearly, but Maisie did not. She
began very unusual obsessive behaviors. She continued to chew an unusual
amount of the time like a teething child, and was very distressed when
she could not chew. She began to chew her toenails off until her feet
bled if we did not stop her. She had many many outbursts and started what
can only be described as a complete regression. She was NOT growing up
like the other children, she seemed to be getting younger, would not look
anyone in the eye, and was under a great deal of distress and in physical
pain often times. The worst was she could not speak but would plead with
her eyes to a completely baffled, helpless set of parents and caregivers.
When she would speak at all it would be something repeated from a video
or television commercial over and over again.
We took her to her pediatrician and was given a Speech Evaluation by Children's'
Hospital November 9, 2000. We were told she was in fact not okay and that
the possibility of Autism needed to be assessed. Maisie apparently had
a behavior called Echolalia, which meant even though she would repeat
something from television; she really had no idea or comprehension of
what she was saying. It was a classic symptom of AUTISM. We has no idea
what Autism was. We came later to find out it is a brain disorder that
is treatable with massive combined efforts. We were referred to Children's
Hospital Development Evaluation unit which is so impacted she was added
to a waiting list to even get an appointment to be seen as we were losing
neuron development by the second.
We called every day to see if there had been any cancellations. To our
great delight there happened to be a cancellation December 23, 2000 that
allowed her to be seen and evaluated much earlier then at first predicted.
This evaluation was very helpful in getting Maisie help early in all four
branches of services. This early intervention facilitated a great deal
of additional neuron development that would not have happened in Maisie
had the process been delayed. We only wish we had been able to navigate
services for Maisie much, much sooner to have facilitated an even better
foundation for successful neuron development.
We would like to thank at this time Dr. Mark Whitney, and Leslie Merry
of the Miracosta Community College Children's Center. They were invaluable
in their parent education when we were so devastated, their superhuman
efforts to assist us in keeping Maisie safe through the assessment process,
and the excruciating placement process in the four branches of services.
We also thank the E.F.R.C., (the Exceptional Family Resource Center) and
representative Ellen LeGarre for her parent training with their parent
education pamphlets and phone calls when we were absolutely destroyed
emotionally with the loss of Maisie's future. Merryn Affleck of the Autism
Society of America North County Chapter was also extremely helpful in
parent education and support. These were our first Storm Angelique Angels!
The assessment or evaluation at Children's Hospital Developmental Evaluation
Unit was our first attempt to get help from the "private medical
branch" of our services. Other parents also informed us we needed
to seek "educational assessments" from our local school district
of Carlsbad the "educational branch" of our services. We also
had to seek "State assessments" from what was called the Regional
Center, the "public medical branch" of our potential services.
Getting assessments from all the different areas is an aggravating process
but great once navigated.
The last branch was "Home branch'. We define this as including home
environment and parent knowledge facilitating and encouraging optimum
neuron development. Hopefully the parent will also get support services
so they can cope with their grief over their loss, develop new parenting
skills, and be emotionally available to treat their child. If you grow
and treat all four branches of the needs of Autism simultaneously you
MAY get some, even excellent results. We immediately applied to each appropriate
branch for their different services and information. Every branch was
severely impacted and we were told from every person in every branch to
wait wait wait. We wanted the opportunity for "excellent" results.
We stayed busy seeking help.
We were able to get a second opinion, or confirming diagnosis on March
25, 2001 from a Regional Center Dr. Lynn Gregory that Maisie was indeed
Autistic, a 5 on a 1-10 spectrum. Dr. Gregory's forthright discussion
further made us resolve to a life of super neuron development no matter
what. Dr. Gregory clearly demonstrated to us where Maisie had severe neural
gaps in her short term and long-term memory, and that her behavior was
often due to discomfort. We then realized that Maisie was BRAIN DAMAGED
and NOT developing normally and that a great deal would have to be learned
to help her. No one knows why Autism happens to children, or how to keep
it from happening to someone else. We will never forget the day it was
made clear that Maisie would not be growing up like everyone else, the
day everything changed for us forever. It was possible that Maisie-Storm
may not grow up at all, and if she would it would be up to her parents
to make it possible.
Shortly after this assessment process Maisie was admitted to an ABA classroom
in April 2001. Thanks to the regional educational placement in this local
Applied Behavioral Analysis Program, Maisie is now integrating into
typical educational settings in our local Carlsbad School District. Maisie
is very committed to independence, learning like crazy even though her
sensory nervous system cause her great physical pain and discomfort much
of the time.
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